The master … 30 August, 2007
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… at least for now 
The joys of the having 2 boys, everything is a competition and you can never show weakness else they will lynch you in two seconds…
This week has been a roller coaster of emotions, the ex has decided to declare full scale war until she hit the brick wall & the first force of resistance that she never expected. Then there was the ever present Lady Luck, my staff are convinced that I have had sex every day this week, they so wrong! Lady Luck has push my tank of lust for life to 110% full I have not smiled so much for so long, she provides me with an energy that makes me walk on cloud9 & makes me feel like I can concur the world.
I can’t wait to see Lady Luck again, the sms are flying daily & I have great fun in my meetings flirting with a sexy lady thousands of miles away.
… Lady Luck, all I can say is, I miss your beautiful naughty smile and every day I hear that sexy voice over the phone I just want to jump on the first plane to London.
The Taxi Driver … 30 August, 2007
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A taxi passenger tapped the driver on the shoulder to ask him a question.
The driver screamed …
… lost control of the car, nearly hit a bus, went up on the footpath, and stopped centimeters from a shop!
For a second everything went quiet in the cab, then the driver said:
“Look mate, don’t ever do that again. You scared the daylights out of me!”
The passenger duly apologized and said, “I didn’t realise that a little tap would scare you so much.”
The driver replied, “Sorry, it’s not really your fault. Today is my first day as a cab driver – I’ve been driving a mortuary van for the last 25 years.”
Fishing with the boys … 27 August, 2007
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Saturday was not one of my better days, I had to say goodbye to Lady Luck before she went off to London, it was a sad moment & I didn’t quite know how to do it. I mean I knew the lady for a week. The amazing part was that I got very close to her, we shared some very personal things, which made our relationship very special in my eyes.
So I did the next best thing I took the boys fly fishing on Sunday & made them a promise if we catch any trout we will go to aunty Mandy for lunch & she will cook the trout for us, the first one to catch a fish will have the honour of being called “SIR” for the day by the other two.
We arrived at our destination at about 8am – 8:30am and made our first cast at only 9:30am, don’t ask everything went wrong getting the tackle together. My mind was on a sexy Lady Luck in red.
The fishing was the same as always, everybody caught except my two, which is not a bad thing if you think that it cost R60 a KG! Miguel’s casting was improving & Romario was still battling a little bit with a long cast. I got some time to day dream about the special moments I share with Lady Luck. 
So as a good dad I started to help the boys with their casting & I casted two long once for Romario, the second cast is what started it all. I caught one the first / second in 2 years!!! I had to make a quick call to Mandy & hope and pray she would accommodate us!!! The great lady she is, we quickly arranged everything, and the only problem was I needed more fish!!! Within an hour we caught another 4, 3 by me & 1 by Miguel.
Mandy made a great supper with a recipe of the internet:
One rainbow trout, a wedge of peach, a wedge of lemon, sprig of thyme, six or seven blueberries, a wedge of inner red onion, a plum, three sheets of newspaper, mixed leaves, ciabatta and olive oil.
METHOD: Clean and gut the trout, then arrange the stuffing ingredients in the colour order of the rainbow and put them in the trout. Wrap the trout in newspaper and soak in cold water. Place the trout on the barbecue and cook until the paper is dry. Unwrap the newspaper carefully to leave you with a clear, colourful trout stuffed with a sweet-and-sour filling.
Sounds great & it tasted incredible, thx Mandy you a star.
52 hours of Fun … 22 August, 2007
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Lady Luck was defiantly a person I needed to meet in life I don’t care what happens going forward, but I met a person that matches my positive outlook in life. She has that smile that makes you happy all the way to the bottom of your stomach…
… She has a heart of gold, she is that voice in the back of your head when you stand at a cross road & you know she would tell you to take the right because that is the right way to go & you will do just that…
…Then there is that smile, it is innocent, it is warm, it is kind & it has just a hint of naughtiness, that would make you go back for more …
… Then there is the kiss…..
… I need to get my thoughts together, bottom line is she is fun & she makes you want to get up in the morning & just smile …
Six degrees of separation … 21 August, 2007
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You might ask yourself why the hell I put this article up. Simple it all started on Sunday 19th August 2007…
… I went & gambled at MonteCasino. Across the table sat two ladies playing blackjack, the youngest one caught my eye. She had a smile that would melt any man’s heart and the kindest eyes that would make Mother Teresa look like the devil (oops that’s quite harsh), bottom line I started flirting with Lady Luck as I called her, seeing that she was winning all the cash on the table I did know what her name was but I needed my intro
I finished playing blackjack at a very strategic time, got up and walked away & two steps behind me she followed. My timing was perfect & before she knew it we where having a drink in the VIP lounge. We chatted about a lot of things but the one thing was very clear, her son was her everything & secondly she could not stand football.
Seeing I was on a roll & time was a factor, due to the fact that London is her home & she was on her way back in 6 days time, I offered to take her for dinner. Almost at the venue she politly explains that one of her customers was Liverpool!!!! (What a show off, Liverpool is my team & they are the best ever!!!) … Before I get stuck on that topic … We had a wonderful dinner, she made me feel alive & I discovered that she is one incredible kisser
Monday morning I was in turmoil, will she phone me, should I phone her, the time factor, aaag you get the picture …
…yes I phoned & politely inquired on my chances to take her for dinner. To my delight she agreed, you see, she has to meet an old friend for dinner on Tuesday night and she needed somebody to hold her hand I agreed & inquired a little further about her friend …
… Then the devil’s name got uttered “Shannon”! Shannon happens to be my ex wife’s new best friend! Thus the title “Six degrees of separation”, we all know the person next to us, one way or another…
… yes Lady Luck is very sexy, u perverts!
What a day!!! 8 August, 2007
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Yesterday was a killer, I had the great joys of discovering that my ex has a thing for three guys, I am on the list at least, what a relieve! 
The second guy, was no surprise, but the third one was a shocker. You see I used to think that he was a patient, however he is not, he is another ex-boyfriend from school days. 12yrs of marriage & I never hear her mention him once!
Reality has kick in again and a couple of calls to the lawyer later I was back on track again. My biggest question to ex is why she had to hide all of this, she never spoke of Gareth before, am I some sort of monster that she couldn’t ever talk to? I don’t know, but I believe that my ex had a mental affair with one, or both of these guys.
You might ask why? Simple why hide something so badly from your partner for 12yrs, unless you feel guilty. Why get defensive about it when asked? I have never been the jealous type, the only time I started ask questions was when she became secretive. She could have had the decency to tell me, she is love with someone else at least! I would have walked away without a problem. The lying that my ex does has brought me to the point that my love & respect for her fades away. I have to ask myself one question, what makes her so special?
The second part to this terrific day of mine, was the access to the boys. I get told from the start how I will always have access to the boys, now this has become a bit of a joke. I hope my ex can stop using the boys, she needs to ask herself, who is she protecting the boys or herself? The reality of a divorce is loneliness, you can’t use the kids to fill that void! You will regret this in the long run! The boys need there space and you need to face up to your own reality in life, don’t smother them!
Then lastly, I suppose all things happen in threes! I need to leave you with this thought, why get defensive about something that is supposedly innocent & you have done nothing wrong? Anyway I am not holding my breath that she would reply & if she does that she would reply honestly. You see I have used this blog to pore my heart out to her, which she enjoyed, I don’t know why, is it because she wants to use this against me at a later stage? Who cares, I have always been honest about my outlook on things, I don’t hold my punches, I say it as it is! I remember the days when we used to do that, but now is now! Well I hope that her best friends can be there for her when she needs help, especially seeing that they are more important in her life than what I used to be…
