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It has been a while 13 October, 2009

Posted by The Dreamer in dreams, grateful, happiness, Hilton College, lost, low, the boys, the secret.
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“Men often become what they believe themselves to be. If I believe I cannot do something, it makes me incapable of doing it. But when I believe I can, then I acquire the ability to do it even if I didn’t have it in the beginning.” – Ghandi

What a eventful last 7 months!bad times

  • No work!
  • One of my big dreams shattered!
  • Almost losing my house, because I had not paid rent for 6 months!
  • Almost dieing because I don’t have health care!
  • and my ex is on cocaine!

I’ve been through hell the last 7 months, that is if you looking in from the outside! In truth I had one or two rough days, but generally it was been great. Somethings genuinely can’t be measure, like having my boys 80% of the time the last 7 months, they kept me alive, they kept me dreaming, they made me smile everyday!

Things have turned and some have changed but the ultimate goal of my boys happiness is still on track, because some times its not about money, good schools or anything other than spending quality time with your children. I will always be grateful for my boys, they give me the courage to stand up ever morning and be greatful and dream :)

The goals over the short term is:

  • Make a successful business using Google Apps
  • Create a social network for schools
  • Create a Labor Consultant business
  • Create a online Adult Dating site
  • Get Miguel back into Hilton!

If you don’t dream, you will not succeed…

Day Trip to Hilton … 8 March, 2009

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… 4am on a Sunday morning!!!! What was I smoking :) Miguel had his six a side tournament at Hilton, Romario & I was going to support him :) hilton-007

We had packed all the essentials, 18 x Millers, 6 x pack of bacon, 48 x eggs, 1 x skottel and cutlery.  2km down the road we remembered the 48 rolls that was left behind & we still had 480km to go with 4½ hrs to go, so “stuff it” we will get some fresh rolls on the way :)

A couple of hours & speed fines later, we hit the midlands, thick with rain clouds & mist but still a beautiful scene with rolling green mountains as a background  hilton-011hilton-020hilton-015

… 8:20am arrive at Hilton village looking for the local bakery, we find it and clean them out of all there fresh rolls armoured with all the ingredients and equipment for bacon & egg rolls we arrive at Hilton College :) Miguel slaughters their first opponents with 30 runs of off 4½ overs, 30 seconds & 16 becon and eggs rolls later the boys are ready for their next game :)

… 11am Hilton tour starts, great marketing ploy you have to admire the school :) Romario gets to see his future accommodation, the class rooms, the old chapel, dining room hall (more like 5 star hotel) and the game farm :) hilton-023hilton-025hilton-030hilton-029
…12:30pm lunch is served at the club house, what a setup, who said the old colonial style of things is a thing of the past.

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…3:30pm Without getting all boring the last game was full of action Miguel bowls the last over and on his first ball the batsman gets drop, what an expensive drop he goes on to makehilton-038 another 20 runs of Miguel’s over. St. Peters’ turn to bat & Miguel goes firing bats all 5 overs and makes 24 runs but 18 runs short of the final target, what a pitty, but the boys had fun & Hilton got to see one of their future scholars in action :)

The start of my new Journey … 6 August, 2007

Posted by The Dreamer in dreams, grateful, Hilton College, the boys, the secret, Zanzibar.
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Before I can start my new journey, I need to outline what I want to achieve in life, what is import to me & most importantly what I need to be grateful for. Some of my goals or dreams are not for myself but people that I love that would need me to achieve theses goals.

The things that I am grateful for in life, these are things that I will say thank you for every day.

I am grateful for my two wonderful boys
I am grateful for my positive outlook of life
I am grateful for the blessed life I am living

Now for the vanity part, that everybody can see a mile away without you having to say a word:

I love the fact that I have a joyful outlook on life
I love the fact that I am a handsome man
I love the fact that I have a heart of gold
I love the fact that I am passionate about the things I love
I love the fact that I am a down to earth person

And lastly all great discoveries, are journeys into the unknown, most discoveries where made without a detailed plan, but with by a dream. My dreams for myself is as follow, I will achieve:

I will rebuild my relationship with my ex wife, workable one for the boys.
I will have a partner that loves me unconditionally, with kindness, compassion, intimacy & honesty.
I will build my dream house in the Midlands.
I will visit my family across the world.
I will explore Africa with my boys, all the way to Zanzibar
I will make a million dollars
I will start a business that will flourish
I will become the best CIO in Africa
I will send my boys to Hilton College
I will send my boys to Ivy League University

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